Ever wondered why you can’t get a girlfriend? It seems impossible! You find it difficult to stop a girl and even when you muster the courage to stop her, you can’t still speak.
There are a lot of factors that contribute to guys not having a girlfriend, not because they do not want to, but because they can’t go about the “process”.
Here are the reasons why you can’t get a girlfriend.
1. You give up too soon
Rejection is a normal part of dating. You should know that some girls you meet will reject you. It is not just your fault, not everyone will like you. Maybe you could try someone else. People who reject you do not like you.
2. You don’t know how to flirt
Flirting with your girlfriend spices things up your relationship. The spark lives and keeps your partner attached to you. You could flirt through eye contact, touches, and even messages. If you make your relationship boring, your girlfriend may leave you.
Anxiety could prevent you from having a girlfriend. If you can’t do away with fear and doubt, you are likely not going to be able to stop a girl.
4. You are always negative
This set of people has already concluded an unsuccessful outing with a girl before even meeting her. You can’t be negative and expect positive results.
5. You look desperate
Even if you desperately need a girlfriend, don’t look desperate. No girl would want to date you if you come to them looking like your life depends on the relationship you want to have with her.
6. You feel unsecured
If you are too jealous, controlling, or overly dependent then your girlfriend may leave you. (If you’ve had one already). Stop being hard on yourself for the things you can’t do. The moment you begin to appreciate that things can do better than you, then you may have a more stable relationship.
7. You don’t pay attention to your looks
No girl would want to date a guy who doesn’t know how to combine the right colors, match the right outfits, or has bad grooming. Your appearance nay may be the reason why you don’t have a girlfriend yet.
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