Did you know the most attraction between two people is done even before either of them says a word? Yes, if you truly want to be attractive, it won’t be because of what you say. You can try your best to say the right things, but if those first few moments aren’t attractive enough, a girl probably won’t want anything to do with you.
It’s actually a well proven fact that during the first few moments, guys notice the appearance that attracts them. On the other hand, girls get attracted to your behaviour. But the real question is, how can you actually attract girls? What behaviour attracts them? Well, if you’re struggling with that, don’t worry because today we’ll tell you just how you can attract any girl you want without ever saying a word.
You might think it’s six packs or maybe curly hair or maybe playing a guitar or having a beautiful voice. Sure, that all attracts girls, but even if you have none of that, you can attract girls and the trick is how you behave around girls.
So, the main behaviour that will attract girls towards you is confidence. There’s nothing that will drive a girl away faster than a guy who’s uncertain and nervous. So make sure you’re confident and you look confident even when going through uncertainties. Girls love boys that seem dominant, courageous and just optimistic.
You might have noticed this: there are guys who pretty much lack any real skills, but somehow they attract a lot of girls. That’s simply because they look confident. They go up to girls and talk confidently and bravely. So, if you truly want to impress a girl, even if you’re scared out of your mind, look brave and confident. That’s the first part of confidence that girls like. They love it when you look certain even when going through an uncertainty.
But there’s a second part of confidence – that is dominance. Now, dominance doesn’t mean that you always tell girls what to do, they hate that. There’s a very fine line between the dominance that is attractive and the dominance that is straight up disrespectful. Usually, dominance just means that you should be sure of what you want.
Since the beginning of time, guys have been the dominant ones and girls are usually submissive. If you’re a guy, you’ll know guys usually get attracted to submissive girls. It’s the same for girls too. Dominant guys attract them more and that’s why girls often make themselves look submissive and weak. For one, they know it attracts guys around them and secondly it makes guys be more dominant which girls absolutely love.
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Now the question is, how can you show girls you’re confident and you can be dominant without even talking to them? Well, that will completely depend on your body language. Trust me, a girl can tell if you’re confident just by the way you sit and the way you walk around. Firstly, let’s talk about sitting. You should always be careful about your posture.
Trust me, if your shoulders are slouchy and your head is inclined, that straight up says: this guy isn’t confident! You don’t want to do anything that makes you look weak. So instead of slouching, sit straight, pull your chest forward and roll your shoulders back. Keep your head held high. I know this may sound stupid, but if you truly want to look confident, you even have to change how you sit.
Next up when you walk, make sure your back is straight and your head is up. Make sure you look confident, but don’t walk around looking way too overconfident as well. Trust me girls love confident guys, but if you look a bit too confident, that’s a huge turn off. So make sure you’re confident, but just make sure you don’t overdo it.
Anyway when you walk, keep your movements controlled and walk slower than usual. That makes it look like you’re comfortable with yourself and the world around you. Also, when you’re in the same room as the girl you want to impress, try looking around the room and don’t be afraid to make eye contact. Not to sound too cheesy, but when you catch your eye and make eye contact, that can actually build a connection.
Also, even if you don’t make eye contact with her, just make sure you look around the room when walking or talking. Also make sure to smile and be expressive about your emotions. It makes you look confident, but at the same time, it makes you look approachable and sociable. It will make girls feel comfortable approaching you.
The last but not the least – just have fun! Don’t overthink everything and just go out and enjoy your life. That’s the key step to attracting girls towards you. Everyone wants to be around people that just have fun. Everyone wants to join them in the fun, so just enjoy yourself and trust me you’ll make a good impression on others.
With that, it all just falls down on being confident in yourself and in your life. Once you’re confident, you’ll start to enjoy everything you do. You’ll start to enjoy your life and trust me there’s nothing girls love more than a guy enjoying his life without any insecurities.
