Getting married as a virgin is absolutely not wrong. Infact, it is honouring your body and being willing to share it with someone, whom you hope to have a lifelong commitment with.
Men can be virgins, as well as women, but women are the ones who are mostly spoken about.
Sex, if not adequately taken care of, can become an issue when you get married as a virgin.
Here are 6 important things you must know if you got married as a virgin:
1. The first time doesn’t have to be painful or filled with blood
Most people believe that the first time must be really painful and filled with blood. However, the first time might not really be painful and does not necessarily have to be filled with blood. If it is filled with blood, then it means that the vagina was torn, which is not supposed to be. It takes a normal sized penis to expand the vagina effortlessly.
2. Only do it when your partner is comfortable
Don’t try to cajole your partner into the act when he or she isn’t ready for sex. Allow your partner to gather much information about the experience and even be looking forward to it. You need to have your partner’s consent before indulging in the act.
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3. Lean heavily on foreplay
Leaning heavily on foreplay such as kissing, touching, petting, helps your partner become aroused enough to engage in penetrative sex.
4. Have open talks about sex
You need to have open talks with your partner on the idea of having sex. Your partner must see it as something normal. Having open talks about sex helps remove any feeling of guilt and shame associated with it.
5. Try it a couple of times
It is possible that at the first attempt, the penis might not go in. So, it is advisable to try it a couple of times until your partner gets comfortable, and the penis can easily slide in too.
6. Use lubricant
Use actual store-bought lubricants and use it generously too. It helps make the process easier.
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