When you get engaged with someone who doesn’t please or satisfy you sexually, it is best to let them know and in the best way possible.
Here are 5 perfect ways to tell your partner to up their sex game without offence:
1. Be clear on what they’re not getting right: Figure out exactly what it is that your partner isn’t getting right during sex, and be specific because your partner can’t read your mind.
2. Check the spec on your eye: Do a self-examination too and gauge your own sex performances. Putting in an extra effort in the act may be all that is needed for your partner to up his/her sex game.
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3. No comparisons: Be sure you’re not comparing your partner with someone else, especially with an ex. It’s totally wrong to compare your partner with someone else when having this conversation.
4. Choose the right place and time: Make sure you choose the right place and time for this discussion. Don’t talk about it in the bed room or in-between the act. When something doesn’t feel right about the sex, it’s better to talk about it when you are not having sex.
5. Give them time to get it right: The change in your partner’s sex game is not going to happen overnight. So, you need to allow your partner get in line at their own pace. Give your partner time to get it right because these things take time.
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