6 Brutal Truths about Getting a Divorce in Nigeria

Divorce leads to the nullification of marriage legally. It can lead to reorganizing responsibilities and management.

A lot of couples, resort to divorce when they feel that things are no longer working out well in their marriage.

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However, divorce may not be the best answer to fix the marriage.

See brutal Truths you should know before opting for a divorce:

• Divorce won’t make you happier instantly

Probably, you divorced your partner because you think you are no longer happy in your marriage, but the truth is that getting a divorce is not a criterion that you will be instantly happy.

• Divorce may affect your finance at the beginning

Divorce does not only leave you independent but financially independent too. Particularly if you were not used to providing your finances yourself. The truth is that you may have to start from scratch.

• You will lose a few family and friends

Divorce will leave you with few family and friends. Not everyone will relate properly with you after divorce, especially friends and family close to your spouse.

• If your spouse is in a hurry to get a divorce, then they have someone else already

This is a hard truth but can be the reason why most people want to get a divorce. If your spouse is in a hurry to get a divorce; that may be a red flag. Longing to be with another person other than your spouse can be a trigger to divorce.

• Divorce is painful

Although remaining with your ex can be torture and affect your overall health, divorce can still bring pain. The thoughts of societal views towards your broken home can leave you in pain. Before getting a divorce, be prepared for hard times and rough emotions.

• Divorce may alter your level of trust in people

Divorce can make you lose confidence in people and their words. You may find it difficult to confide in anyone that comes around you.

• Divorce sucks children

Divorce becomes more complicated when children are involved. You are not responsible for your kids alone, being separated can be traumatic for your children. Keep them away from the divorce process if you must get a divorce.

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